From their site they say the following, “if you don’t find someone within the initial 3 months after purchasing the “Affair Guarantee” Membership Package, we’ll refund you $249, being the amount you paid for participating in the Program” Yes that’s correct, you have to pay $249 for the Affair Guarantee Membership which doesn’t come cheap, but if it doesn’t work out in those three months you can get a refund of your $249. If they are offering a refund, what have you got to lose?

One our readers did a review of his experience with Ashley Madison Agency, you can read about it at Ashley Madison Review and Results

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The “Cash for Clunkers” plan says if your partner is fat, obese, or larger then you would like, trade them in for a thinner younger partner on Ashley Madison.

Guys,

Have you ever read the M4W or CE posts? They’re practically all exactly the same! Have you ever noticed how many new ads are posted everyday? TONS. Do you realize how much competition you have? Do you realize that guys who want sex are a dime a dozen? Oh wait… you are the best pussy licker in town, sorry this post isn’t for you. CE is obviously working wonders for you.

I can guarantee you that even the most prudish girl/woman surfing this board would have an NSA encounter if the perfect post grabbed her attention. It may only be one post in a million… but they are looking, so there’s a chance.

If you want to get noticed, you have to stand out. PERIOD. What can you offer that none of the others can? How are you going to get a women to even want to open your ad if you have nothing to catch their attention? We KNOW what YOU want, why are you telling us in you Headline. What can you offer ME!?

Lets look at the steps that need to occur before you have sex with a stranger. This might not be the exact set of steps for everyone (I know there are CL CE pros out there), but it is for a lot of women… as you can see, this is no easy game for the average joe. (but that’s why you are here).

1. Most critically, she needs a reason to even want to open your post… the headline is all you have to make this happen… shouldn’t it be a great one? The headline is your marketing material.

2. She needs to read your post. Grammar and spelling counts guys, but the message must be enticing and en line with your headline (the reason she opened your post)

3. it needs to pique HER interest (Guys, get this trough your thick skulls… This isn’t about YOU. Stop sounding so selfish. “I want BJ, I want to fuck girls.” We KNOW why you posted! what are you going to do for me to get what you want?

4. She needs to Reply. Thats a big step. HUGE! Don’t blow your wad. I would guess that 90% of posters fail when they email her back.

5. exchange pics. (this can be a nail in your coffin. Choose your pics carefully. Consider all else that is in the photo. If your pic is horrible, we assume that it is your BEST foot forward and it can only go down hill from there. Ugly furniture? Messy apartment? dont put that stuff in your pics)

5. You need to connect. If you can get past the email stage, you are in great shape. If you can get her number, you are going to meet.

6. You meet. You are NOT “in like flint” boys. She is still deciding on whether or not she wants to go through with it. Make her comfortable.

Lets look at some of the recent headlines in Milwaukee M4W CE, Shall we? This is a complete list since Midnight December 31st. It’s now just after 1pm. There are about 60. That’s about 5 an hour average.

Of this list, I would open every one with pics first. There are 7 of them. This is not to say that you MUST have a pic, in fact, a lot of you guys are not good at selecting enticing photos. Consider the background, and your choice of undergarments. Anyway, only one shows a face and his was probably one of those who should have not posted a pic. One is a pic of Mr T, another a cartoon, and the others are ugly dick pics. The guy who doesn’t want white chicks has a stumpy dick. Not his best feature (I hope)

I would also open all the ones that I thought might have a shot at making me laugh.. SYMPATHY SUCK for instance. So pathetic that it has to be an honest attempt at humor… Nope. At 42, He has just never had a good BJ.

Here we GO!

-Lets fuck for New Years (no date huh? Its OK. Most of the guys on this list are in the same boat)

-Busty women Please reply (OMG! I found a man who likes big tits! Call Rippleys!)

-Looking for some LEGS (I have legs, what do you have?)

-Anyone wanna chat? YIM me for some erotic fun! ( I might, actually)

-SYMPATHY SUCK (I was hoping this would be an attept at humor)

-FWB’s (What about it?)

-Nw Years Eve Date (another last minute desperate attempt… and he cant spell)

-Is there a lady woul would like to have a FB? (ME!ME!ME!)

-New Year’s blowjob?? lol (yeah, lol… haha)

-Looking for a woman 35 or older to hookup this weekend at my house(26) (Id read this one, but that doesnt mean Im going to his house… but hey a 26 y/o with a house?)

-Love Without the Glove (EW! Are you fucking kidding me!?)

-pre new-year’s fun? (Im wet already)

-LOOKING for a BBW (This has the BEST CHANCE on this board)

-Get Pregnant (Ill open it out of curiosity… freek show, or comedian… it’s worth a look)

-A nice gentleman in need (all you guys are in need)

-Want a woman under 35 to hang out tonight!! (you mean, a new years eve date?

You should have added “BBW.” There are a lot of them looking this time of year!)

-IM LOOKING FOR LUNCHTIME FUN (Its all about you, isnt it)

-Man looking for NSA fun (Extra! Extra! Read all about it! Man Seeks Unattached Sex, Wall street Crashes))

-cum or anal??? (Say WHAT!)

-Younger Woman Wanted to hang with tonight!!! (38) (This just in…)

-nice guy looking for fun time (23) (thats nice)

-Looking to be mommys little boy (36) (To each his or her own… I hope he finds his match)

-Looking for a drinking ga (29) (What is a ga? I hope its like AA)

-Check it out (eh, why not)

-marines last day in town looking for nsa fun (24)(the “marine” card works, but we know you want sex… you dont need to tell us.)

-Experienced Dom seeks daytime sub (48)

-Looking for latina, black or asian (34) (So… pretty much no white chicks)

-Azian man looking for NSA (30) (I did not know Azian men like sex too!)

-NEED A HANDYMAN?? (43) (Why YES! I DO need a handy man. I’ll open you)

-This Morning (yeah, I’ll be right over)

-Bord and horny, Dirty emails? (31) (Emails are non committal… I might check you out)

-Bring in the new year with a big bang-ing (33) (Another dateless wonder on NYE)

-Casino companion? (47) (HELL YEAH!)

-Can you make me a better offer??? (50) (I need to find out what this guy offered)

-WHORES ONLY (36) (Dammit!)

-Maried and Bored? Me too! (33) (at least he’s honest)

-Any real women out there interested in NSA (HELLO, Hello, hello… ECHO, Echo, echo…)

-kinking man looking (Ya dont say!)

-You want me (26) (I KILL YOU)

-lets meet (37) (Nah)

-tender bed buddy (48) (weird)

-nsa fun (More breaking news)

-NSA NEW YEARS EVE FUN (38) (…)

-can you handle me? lets have descrete fun (21) (Ill look… he posted a pic)

-Looking for my anal queen! (35) (I put you on a pedestal, you are my queen… I will light candles and lay you down on a bed of flower petals. I will then gently penetrate your booty hole)

-New Years blow out (36) (…)

-White cum Black ass (34) (I LOVE SHOPPING THERE! I want to read this one!)

-Make me smile (22) (Im trying)

-Real guy here… it’s 17 degrees out right now (30) (What a relief. all these fake horny bastards are really frustrating me)

-Headed to the casino, can I stop over for some quick head maybe more?? (31) (Will you give me money for the slots?)

-What’s out there Hmmmmmmmmm Woooooooo (33) (Marco… Polo!)

-Big strong Male DOM (…)

-any ladies want to come over and drink and hangout? tonight? it’s 1am (26) (no)

-I want to lick your pussy (25) (I know what you want, tell me what I get!)

-Sperm Donations free!!!! free impregnation drain me (29) (I hope this is funny.)

-We can pleasure ourselves (43) (cant we do that BY ourselves?)

-Looking for a sexy girl that loves giving head!!!! (20) (This guy is one in a million.)

If Craigslist.com doesn’t work for you, try Ashley Madison, you can read about it at Ashley Madison Review and Results.

If you come off as any of these above, of course your not going to have any success on meeting someone. The same rules on dating in the real world still apply on online dating, so don’t think you’re entitled to anything.

I hear lots of success stories about Ashley Madison and have friends who hooked up with other individuals on the site. Another thing that tells its users that it’s not a scam is they offer a guarantee. From their site they say the following, “if you don’t find someone within the initial 3 months after purchasing the “Affair Guarantee” Membership Package, we’ll refund you $249, being the amount you paid for participating in the Program” Yes that’s correct, you have to pay $249 for the Affair Guarantee Membership which doesn’t come cheap, but if it doesn’t work out in those three months you can get a refund of your $249. If they are offering a refund, what have you got to lose?

One our readers did a review of his experience with Ashley Madison Agency, you can read about it at Ashley Madison Review and Results

He said the following about the site:

Pros: There is a decent ratio of men to women, you can respond to a paid member’s email for free if they contact you. They have an affair guarantee in three months or they refund your money.

Cons: You have to pay to fully utilize this site, but that’s the cost of making discretion a priority.

If you don’t really care about the guarantee and just want to sign up right now, click here to go to the free sign up page.

Ashley Madison kind of sounds like a porn star name, and this online dating service actually does lean more that direction than many of the others. It specializes in affairs for married or attached people, which has gotten the attention of numerous publications. While plenty of people think this kind of service is unethical, there’s no denying the popularity of such practices. Rest assured, reader, that my first-hand knowledge that follows was done entirely for your benefit. I don’t wish to get in trouble with my “attachment.”

There are over 3.5 million members at Ashley Madison, and almost all of them are there to date outside of the relationship. The service makes it absolutely clear that it exists for just that reason. Still, you will find a few singles looking for relationships with other singles, but who would want to hook up with them, since it’s obvious they can’t follow directions?

Signing up can be extremely quick, since you only have to fill out about ten questions related to your location, physical characteristics, and relationship information. However, you have the option of filling out a more detailed profile that includes descriptions of your interests, your perfect match, and your “intimate interests.” You have the capability to add a profile photo, but you’ll find that the nature of this matching service makes profiles with photos fairly rare. It all adds up to Ashley Madison functioning like the Yahoo Personals of the polyamorous.

Members can get quite specific in their profiles with an interest checklist of over fifty preferences ranging from scented candles to tattoos. Some members also have a “private showcase” that may include photos you wouldn’t want your grandma to see. Other members must be invited to view them.

Ashley Madison offers a lot of help for members who want to make discretion a high priority. Members can turn off their profiles at any time, and they can also set things up so they appear offline even when they are actually online. In case you are about to get caught with your hand in the cookie jar, there is a panic button that will whisk you away to a movie trailer website. Good luck hitting it in time, though, as the button is awfully tiny.

Mischief and discretion come at a premium with Ashley Madison, so expect to pay two or three times the cost of cheaper online dating sites like Date.com or Perfectmatch.com. There is no monthly subscription price; instead members pay for credits, with the cheapest option being 100 credits for $55. That will buy you 5 hours of instant messaging time or 20 emails to new matches. The ultimate package costs $360 and covers six months of unlimited emailing and 750 credits (which equates to more than 37 hours of instant messaging time). Members can also choose to transfer credits to other members.

Other features you’ll find on the site include a tips section, where Ashley Madison offers advice for successful encounters. The online matchmaker seems to have thought of everything a new member could want in the way of help, even providing a “Dictionary of Acronyms & Emoticons” and a chart listing the most popular days and times for members to be on the site.

Ashley Madison also includes some cost-cutting features such as the ability to respond to a paid member’s email for free. There is also the unique option to send a collect instant message.

Be sure to thoroughly understand the consequences that can come from using the Ashley Madison online matching service. It can’t be emphasized enough that this is not just another online personals site. That being said, if some excitement outside of your current relationship doesn’t clash with your values, Ashley Madison can offer you a well-organized center for finding just what you’re looking for.

• “hi. it’s a boring day. no action going on today. just wanted to say hi. just let me know if I can help you.”
• “You look cute….what are you thinking about doing today?”
• “When are you looking to get together?  I’m available until about 4pm today.”
• “hey hun whats up”
• “Hi, I would love to entertain you today.”
• “Attrractive and discrete here downtown, 32 italian guy. interested?”
• “Do you care that I’m married??”
• “CAN YOU HOST FOR A WHILE???   LOVE THE LUNCH TIME THING 12:30 -1:30″
• “Anxious to know more.  WM/ 39 fit sexy d&d free, 7″thick”
• “hey im looking for some fun im bored as fuck and need to unleash some dick power if your interested let me know i will suck your pussy until all the juices are off of it”
• “I am an exotic and attractive man 6 feet tall 180 pounds with 8.5 inch cut dick.”
• “Do you have a number?”

None of these above responses were edited, this was the only thing said in their emails. Of the 120+ responses there was nothing interesting or humorous said to get the ladies attention, just emails from men being to demanding and needy. Also most of the emails sent had pictures of their penis attached, had cell phone numbers, and some were sent from private/work emails. That’s not too smart gentleman, that just asking for trouble.

For our M4W ad we received 5 responses in a twenty four hour period. Two of the responses were spam trying to get us to sign up for some webcam site, while the remaining three were from men offering discreet blowjobs to our male poster. So it seems we have males trolling the M4W section contacting males and offering them anonymous blowjobs.

We then decided to email a few of the ladies in the W4M section. Every response we got back was spam trying to get us to sign up for something, and not from real ladies. The truth is 95% of the W4M post are fake is only used to get emails to send you an advertisement back or to get you to sign up for something. Also the women who are real aren’t appealing.

We recommend you don’t use craigslist.com casual encounters section, stick with sites like Ashley Madison, Adult Friend Finder, or goto discreetdatingreviews.com to read peoples reviews of various dicreet dating sites, craigslist is over whelmed with horny men taking advantage of the free casual encounters section. You’re more then welcome to try craigslist casual encounters section out if you don’t believe us, but we guarantee you’ll be disappointed.

After trolling craigslist.com casual encounters section here’s what I’ve learned so far:

1. Many men post repeatedly. Almost daily in fact.
2. A LOT more men post than women, like a 200 to 1 ratio.
3. More young men post then older men.
4. Most of the offers (almost all) aren’t appealing – too far away, wrong age range, interested in making a night of it or noncompatible sexual requirements.
5. Some men are so obviously lying that I wonder how many who seem sincere really are.
6. I gather from some men’s comments that many gay men respond to these ads.
7. Young men are more likely to post a picture that includes their face.

Why some men think that posting pics of them having sex with other women wouldn’t make a potential sex partner fear she’ll find herself on Craigslist next week is beyond me. I’ll steer clear of those. Why men bother posting a request for a BJ and nothing else is also beyond me. Who would respond to that? Or the 60 yr olds looking for 18 yr olds.

Some examples: Men, don’t show your abs if you’re over 20 years of age–it will backfire on you. Women, the older you are the better off you’ll be if you show some cleavage. Men, don’t smile in your pic, and make sure you’re staring at something out of frame. Women, smile and flirt directly into the camera. However, for both sexes your odds of a new contact leading to an actual conversation is best if your photo shows you doing something interesting, posing with an animal, or traveling.

I have no idea if this scales to same sex dating sites.

“The 4 Big Myths of Profile Pictures” [oktrends]

Here are a six tips to help you be more successful on dating sites such as adultfriendfinder.com and ashleymadison.com.

1. Post decent photos of you. That means no penis or perverted photos. A nice profile picture of you can get more responses.
2. Fill out you profile completely and leave out the weird facts. Strange information in you profile will get you few or no responses.
3. When you contact someone don’t be demanding or needy, that will get you no replies, you have to be humorous and keep the message short and simple.
4. Don’t just respond to profiles with pictures only, some people don’t post photos of them for privacy reasons. Others don’t want to get responses based only on their looks and leave out the photo to get people to have to communicate and related to them on some level. If they are interested in you they will send you a photo.
5. Don’t focus all your time on the person who is the most attractive based on their profile picture, because every man in your local area already has.
6. You need to stick out in someone way if you’re a male using these sites, since the men to women ratio is much larger.

To avoid this problem, just use a prepaid credit card that can be purchased anonymously at most major grocery stores and pharmacies with cash. You have the option to load any dollar amount you want on a card or purchase one that already has a set amount such as $50 or $100. The best part about these prepaid cards is they send no statements. Once you have your prepaid card you can register for sites that are targeted towards individuals wanting to have a discreet affair such as adultfriendfinder or ashleymadison.